Monday, December 30, 2013

How do you get along with difficult people?

Do you ever wonder how do you get along with difficult people? Some people no matter how hard you try, they are just very difficult to get along with. I went back to work today and it just seem like it was very difficult day. Sometimes even at work. I feel all. Have you ever felt this way? I’m sure might have.

Some people have no issues in this area. They seem to get along with all and never struggle in this area. Sometimes I feel like I always have to go the extra mile in order to get along with others. I believe most of this might be centered on how I got along with others as I was growing up as a kid and a young adult. I know I cannot change the past. The only thing I can change is the future. With God all things are possible to him that believes. No matter what the circumstances say I know I need to trust in God with all my hurt and not look at the things that seemed contrary to the word of God.

For this blog site, but say, my main issue with people are the following. It seems like sometimes people give me the cold shoulder and they ignore me and exclude me from things that go on at work. Sometimes I think maybe this is a good thing and that God is shielding me from negative situations that are not healthy. When it comes to gossip, backbiting, discord and hatred, I know these things are not healthy.

Sometimes my heart is just breaking and just try so hard to get along with others. I work with a diverse group of people and I sometimes don’t know what to do. As I said here and write this, I know that God is the only one that can change this situation in any situation that is contrary to the word of God. God is ultimately in control and I know as a child of God, I have is my in his favor is bigger than any man in this world or group of people.

I know that the Bible says that we touch not my anointed and do my prophets no harm. If God is in control, why should I even beats concern about this? In my heart I know that God will take care things if I allow him to. I know that if I try to fix this. I will mess it up. I guess I am sick and tired of being sick and tired and really mean that I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Have you ever felt like I am writing to you to tonight? I know that even if things don’t change, I need to stand upon the word of God, and declare I am a child of God, and that I have the favor of God, and no man can hurt me anything they say against me that God will make it right. The things that are done in secret, God will avenge the wrong for right. Today I can tell you I think I am learning how to get along with difficult people. We meet many people in our lives from different paths from different experiences and from different walks and we need to appreciate the differences that everybody that we come in contact with in our lives that we can use it for learning experience and that we can grow in life from each person that we meet.

So I guess my close as I reflect upon the people in my life that are difficult I know I just need to turn it over to God and pray for them individually and ask God’s their lives and that there eyes of your understanding be opened. It ask God to bless their lives in bless everything about their families and their jobs.


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